If you think you are going nowhere in life, take a deep breath and watch this.
It is important that you accept that the past is ancient history. It’s okay to remember your past, but don’t live in it. It does not dictate or determine your future in any way, unless you allow it to.
It’s time to stop worrying and start living, today. In the words of Lisa Unger, “The past is history, the future is a mystery, but the present is a gift.”This entry was posted in HEALTH & FITNESS, MINDSET, MOTIVATION & INSPIRATION and tagged achieve your goals, believe in yourself, business, change your life, comfort zone, create a vision for your life, dream, find meaning in life, find your purpose, going nowhere, how to set goals, if you think you are going nowhere, inspiration, invest in your future, learning strategies, life, life is a gift, life mastery, life mastery accelerator, master of your destiny, motivation, new paradigm, obstacle, past, path of learning, personal growth, present moment, self help, self-development, success, take a deep breath, take a risk, the past is history on .
People have a huge impact on your life. Are your friends holding you back? A great way to find out if they are is to write down the qualities of the people that you spend the most time with. Do they support you in the achievement of your goals? Do their life choices inspire you? Do you feel happy when you are in their presence? If the answer to these questions is no, then it’s time to find new friends.This entry was posted in BUSINESS, CAREER & MISSION, CONTRIBUTION, EMOTIONS & MEANING, GOAL SETTING, MOTIVATION & INSPIRATION, RELATIONSHIPS, VLOGS and tagged attract successful people, be open, comfort zone, elevate your game, empowering ecosystem, find a mentor, friends, goals, high vibe, hire a coach, invest in yourself, mastermind group, negative people, personal growth, positive energy, relationships, self help, success on .
The best approach to address haters and people in your life that don’t support your decisions is to learn how to not give a f*ck.
When you are able to adopt this mindset, you find freedom.
The moment that you choose to stop caring what other people think about you, is the moment that you are on the path to success in your life.
So many people worry too much about whether or not people like or accept them.
Stop trying to get people to like you. You have to live your life for YOU.This entry was posted in BUSINESS, CAREER & MISSION, EMOTIONS & MEANING, GOAL SETTING, MOTIVATION & INSPIRATION, RELATIONSHIPS, VLOGS and tagged alignment, fuck, haters, how to deal with haters, mindset, personal development, self help, success, successful people on .
I want to share with you how to master your mind and emotions.
We have been raised in a reactive world. All of us experience moments in our lives when we are triggered in a negative way.
Triggers are a normal part of life. It is up to you how you choose to interpret and respond to these events.
You always have a choice. It comes down to your mindset.
If you want to master your emotions, you need to understand the difference between reactive versus proactive thinking.This entry was posted in CONTRIBUTION, EMOTIONS & MEANING, HEALTH & FITNESS, MOTIVATION & INSPIRATION, RELATIONSHIPS, SPIRITUALITY, VLOGS and tagged control, emotional mastery, emotions, mind, mindset, morning ritual, self help, state, successful people on .
In this episode of #AskStefan, I answer a question from someone about whether or not people laughed or made fun of me when I first publicly started sharing my goals in 2012.
I also talk about how it's important to not care what other people think about you.
A quote by Lao Tzu sums it up perfectly – “Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.”
Everyone else will have a plan for your life and will judge you for not living what they believe is right. I faced a lot of this growing up in my family.This entry was posted in #ASKSTEFAN and tagged happiness, self help, success on .
What kind of books do I read? I'm about to reveal my complete book library and share with you some of my top book recommendations for changing your life. Since I just moved out of my apartment recently, I decided that I'd shoot a video to go through my entire bookshelf and show you what I read. You'll quickly see that I read books on A LOT of different topics – from health, fitness, business, marketing, finance, productivity, biographies, self-help, etc… I read and consume books that can improve ALL areas of my life. By constantly learning and improving myself, I am able to grow and make continue to make a difference here on my blog.This entry was posted in BUSINESS, CAREER & MISSION, EMOTIONS & MEANING, GOAL SETTING, HEALTH & FITNESS, MISCELLANEOUS, RELATIONSHIPS, REVIEWS & RECOMMENDATIONS, SPIRITUALITY and tagged books, business, finance, fitness, health, marketing, reading, relationship, self help, spiritual on .