Do you want to know the secret to success? Change your belief to change your life. When you believe something, it becomes true. Our beliefs about who we are determine the choices that we make in our lives, which is why it is so important that we choose wisely.
One of the biggest obstacles that hold so many people back from success in life is limiting beliefs. These are toxic, success limiting stories we tell ourselves that prevent us from taking action. Your limiting beliefs are all B.S. Here are some examples – “I’m not good enough”, “I’m not smart”, “I can’t do that”. The list goes on and on. These are stories that are created by our minds that hold us back from living to our full potential. The first step to beating your limiting beliefs is acknowledging that they exist.
Your reality is determined by the story that you live by. In the words of Tony Robbins, “The only thing keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself about why you can’t have it.” It’s time to change your belief to change your life. If you don’t, you will end up staying in the same place. Are your beliefs limiting you?
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What ultimately determines the quality of your life is not where you live physically, but rather, where you live emotionally. You can’t control the external world, but you always have control over your inner world. By taking control of your thoughts and the meaning that you ascribe to your experiences, you will be more fulfilled in life.
In the words of T. Harv Eker, “Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world.” If you want to master your life, you need to master your emotions. Don’t blame other people for your problems. You are 100% responsible for your life. Take ownership. The reality is that the only person standing in the way of your success is YOU.
When something happens in life, ask yourself, “How can I learn or benefit from this experience so that I grow and improve myself?” When you ask yourself better questions, better answers will unfold. You will look at the world with a fresh pair of eyes. Only by challenging your old identity do you start to develop new patterns of thinking. This is where the power of personal growth and development comes into play. I have committed my life to mastery. The person that I am today was not the person that I used to be. The moment that I chose to commit my life to mastery was when my entire life changed. However, it was only possible because I believed that change was possible. I knew that I had the power to create and define the life that I wanted. I practice daily rituals, I attend seminars and events, I hire coaches, and I’ve read hundreds of books, all for the purpose of growing and evolving.
In order to achieve success in life, you need to believe in yourself. We have the choice and the ability to define who we are and who we want to be. If you aren’t where you want to be in your life, it is most likely because you are stuck in your comfort zone. Comfort feels safe, but nothing ever grows there, and in turn, you limit yourself and your potential for greatness.
The ideal zone for growth is what Russian developmental psychologist Lev Vygotsky called, The Zone of Proximal Development. This is the area between what you can do on your own and what you can perform successfully with the help of either a mentor or coach (Wright, 2016). You grow faster in this zone because this person provides instruction, direction, and a perspective that you can't give to yourself right away. The reality is that self-study requires trial and error, which takes time and money.
The best mentors will help you learn and grow by sharing their knowledge and wisdom with you. They will accelerate your learning process and inspire you to believe in yourself so that you can take massive action. I have had several coaches and mentors in my life that have helped shape me into the person that I am today. If I could go back in time, I would have found a coach at the beginning of my journey. It would have saved me so much time and money.
As you stretch yourself, your comfort zone expands, and your confidence soars. I am living proof that this is possible. By doing something that scares you, you make the impossible possible, which in turn shifts your beliefs and your mindset, from one of deficit to growth. Once you become fearless, life becomes limitless. If you believe that you can do anything, you are halfway there.
Marianne Williamson said it best, “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be?” When you believe in yourself, the world becomes your playground. Change your belief to change your life.
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