The #1 Secret To Attracting Women & Men (Dating Advice)


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Lets talk about the #1 secret to attracting women and men.  It’s a lot easier than you may think.

The dating world has become so complex. People tend to focus on strategies, gimmicks, pick-up lines, etc.

This may work in the short-term, but it will only result in dating burnout.  This is not the way to attract a partner into your life.

Whenever I pursue something in my life, I always think about what is the most important thing that I need to focus on in order to get the highest return.

When it comes to dating, the secret is to become attractive.  Sound simple? That’s because it is.  Keep in mind that attractive means multiple things, and it means different things to different people.

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When you become attractive, people are naturally drawn to you, so that’s what you need to focus on.

I got into self-development work at 17 years old.  My goal was to have a girlfriend. I wanted to be popular and have confidence, because I was shy and insecure.

I learned all the dating techniques and gimmicks, and I made an incredible transformation.  When I was 21 years old, I started my first company, called, “Lifestyle Transformations”.

Over a five-year period, I coached thousands of men, and helped shape them into the type of man that could attract amazing women into their lives.

The first step is that you have to define what you are attracted to.  A lot of guys want a beautiful, fit, intelligent, charismatic, worldly, successful, or spiritual woman.

The problem is, that these men are not attractive enough to be able to attract a woman who possesses those qualities.

If you want to attract more, and you aren’t satisfied with the quality of your choices, then that is a sign that you need to improve yourself.

Once you define what is attractive to you, the second step is to figure out who that man or women that you desire to be with would be attracted to.  From there, it is your job to become what it is that that they are attracted to.

Do your research. Find out who are they dating or who have they dated in the past, and analyze what it is that is attractive about their current or previous partners.

What is attractive means different things to different people. It could be style, personality, presence, charisma, knowledge, success, money, contribution, etc.

For myself, I realized from an early age that I am attracted to women that are healthy and fit, so I knew that I needed to become like that.

Keep in mind that you attract what you are.  Who you are speaks much more loudly than what you say.

When I was single, I got rejected by women thousands of times, but I viewed these experiences as gifts.

When a girl turns you down and it doesn’t work out, she is pushing you to become a better person and improve yourself.

Through those failures, you become more attractive, and develop more confidence.

Jim Rohn once said, “Work harder on yourself than you do on your job”.

Remember that you already have the ability to improve yourself. Its about taking the steps necessary in order to become attractive to others.  If you change, everything will change for you.

Your ideal partner is out there, waiting for you!

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The #1 Secret To Attracting Women & Men (Dating Advice)
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  • Kinn Wickham

    I really appreciate the part where you said that every rejection is a gift. That is actually a really beautiful concept. It’s like nature’s way of ensuring that you get the highest quality result in the end; as long as you can see the rejection in that light. It really stands to separate you from the rest of the people who don’t have the wherewithal to understand the rejection. The more I watch your videos, the more I realize how much of my time I have wasted in my life. I don’t want to waste anymore. Thank you for always being this way, Stefan. It’s more powerful than you even might believe. Cheers, man.