3 Reasons You’re NOT Winning In Life | Stefan James Motivation

I know why you're NOT winning in life. 

What I'm about to tell you may seem harsh, but it's the truth.

People don't want to hear the truth because it makes them feel uncomfortable. A study found that people are twice as likely to select information that supports their own point of view (67 percent) as they are to consider an opposing idea (33 percent).

Sometimes we need some B.S. free advice in order to wake us up to our true potential. I want to challenge you to grow and become the best version of yourself.

Are you ready to learn 3 reasons why you're NOT winning in life?

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We all want to succeed and win the game of life.

However, a lot of people don't believe that they can do this. Self-belief is the secret to success. Nothing has a greater impact on your results in life than what you believe. Tony Gaskins said it best – “You can’t win in life if you’re losing in your mind. Change your thoughts and it’ll change your life.”

The truth can set you free. However, before this happens, you have to be willing to face the reality of what isn't working. I’m not here to be your friend. Rather, I'm here to be your best friend.

I want to tell you all of the things that you don't want to hear so that you can start making better choices in life. That's what someone who genuinely cares about you does.

Here are 3 reasons why you're NOT winning in life.

1. You're Not A Starter

Oftentimes people don't start something because they are so afraid that they are going to fail. If you don't start something, nothing will happen. The game of your life will be playing out, but you will just be sitting on the bench.

It's not until you decide that you are going to get outside of your comfort zone and take a leap of faith, that your life will truly begin. The ability to take action is the holy grail of life transformation. Choose to be a starter.

2. You're Not A Finisher

If you want to win a race, you need to start it AND finish it. If you never follow through on your commitments, you are never going to get ahead in life.

In his book, Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity, David Allen says that “Much of the stress that people feel doesn't come from having too much to do. It comes from not finishing what they've started.” 

Sound familiar?

Don't get distracted by the shiny object syndrome. You only get credit for the things that you actually finish.

3. You're Not A Driver

Nothing will works unless you do. If you are constantly looking for the easy way out, you will stay stuck in one place. Stop making excuses for your behavior and start being the driver of your life.

A driver does whatever it takes in order to achieve success. They keep pushing forward in spite of how many times they fall down. When you take responsibility for your life, you become empowered to change it.

These are the 3 reasons why you're NOT winning in life.

Look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, “Why am I not succeeding in life?” You are the answer to all of your problems. I hope my words have inspired you to get your shit together. What will you commit to doing today?

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